BSDM Play

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Age Role PlayAge play is very common in BDSM. It is when a submissive pretends to be an infant or child. A Dominant can play the role of a teacher or Head Master/Mistress, or a Doctor or nurse and disciplines the infant or child who plays in that vulnerable position. Age play scenes often involve dressing up either in school girlls uniforms or child-like clothing. Most practices in these scenes involve verbal conduct to keep the submissive in line and a punishment level using spanking or caning. Age play is just a role it is not used in real life and is consensual between two adults. Other practices known within this role play are diapering and bottle feeding and the submissive is given large amounts of water to enable them to wet the diaper. A large dummy or gag can be used with the submissive to make them feel humiliated. Humiliating medical procedures can also take place and the most common are rectal heat stimulation, insertion of suppositories, and the giving of an enema.
Vanilla Anal Training Set Anal stretchingThis is the stretching of the anal passage using a butt plug or other sexual stimulation toy. The stretching is usually done over many months to enable the person to take larger butt plugs, objects or stimulation toys. Anal stretching can be done alone or as part of sexual play between a Dominant and a submissive.
Anal SexAnal sex is common among gay and bi males, but is also practiced in heterosexual relationships (through the use of strap-on dildos when the recipient is male). It is the act of penetration into the anal passage for sexual pleasure. As with any form of sexual intercourse safe sex practices should be engaged.
AbrasionAbrasion is the removing of layers of the skin using objects like sandpaper and is popular among people who want to experiment with scarification. You can also do this with needles or pins to make patterns, almost like a branding in the skin.
Animal RolesAnimal Role play is a play scene in which a submissive behaves in the role of an animal of some kind. The most common form in BDSM is puppy or pony play, but any animal can be role played. Human animal role-play can be sexual or non-sexual depending on both participants and the play role scene, as it can also be purely the roles of animal rider, trainer or caretaker.
AsphyxiationAsphyxiation or breath control play is the sexual practice of strangulation, suffocation or choking, of a person during sexual intercourse. It is said that the decrease of blood from the brain can heighten the pleasure of orgasms. This practice can be VERY DANGEROUS and can result in brain damage or even death and should only be practiced if both parties are consensual and realise the risks involved. Breath control should be done under strict instructions and all safety issues should be in place before engaging in any play scene. Please read our safety section.
Being GaggedThere are many types of gags and they are used to silence the wearer. Worn over or in the mouth depending on what kind is used and can enhance experiences in play scenes. Other forms of communication should be used for safety elements such as hand or head signals and should be put in place before play commences.
Ball BustingThis is a form of CBT where a male submissive has the desire to be kicked in the testicles. Great care should be taken when engaging in this type of activity as damage and lose of function can occur. Make sure all safety measures are in place before any play scenes.
BlindfoldingBlindfolds are a common use in BDSM play sessions, it prevents the wearer from seeing and is used for sensory deprivation. For a submissive it enhances the loss of control and for a Dominant greater control over the submissive. A blindfold can be used in conjunction with a gag.
Body WorshipMost common body worship within BDSM is foot/boot worship, but depending on individual needs and desires any part of a Dominants body can be worshiped through massage and touch. A submissive will generally lick, kiss or suck and sometimes is allowed to touch a Dominant to enhance pleasure for them.
BitingBiting is a form of torture, inflicting pain on a submissive dependant on their level of pain threshold. It can be used in conjunction with many other play sessions and can also be used as a punishment tool from a Dominant. Again individual needs and desires count in any kind of session involving pain. It can also be a form of sexual pleasure to heighten arousal, again individual needs and desires come in to account.
BondageBondage is about tying or restraining a submissive. Restraining can be done at many levels, light to heavy, and can very restrictive or leave the submissive with partial movement. For a submissive it is the need or desire to give complete control to a Dominant. The sensation of being restrained can be arousing to some and can for some the restraints can give pleasure to parts of the body. Sensation and pleasure can be given by the Dominant and the feeling, dependant on individual needs and desires, can give a total power exchange desire, and great sexual contact. There are many forms and ways to practice Bondage sessions and this is explained in our Bondage Techniques section. Please read our safety section.
BrandingBranding is done to signify the ownership of a slave to a Master or Mistress and is usually in the form of a tattoo. This is not done as a play session and is taken seriously by a Dominant and a submissive who are dedicated to each other and the lifestyle.
Brown Showers/CoprophiliaThis is the act of gaining sexual excitement from faeces and is often used in conjunction with BDSM and infantilism. Another term is "scat fetishism" and play where play sometimes consists in a person ingesting and/or playing with faeces. This activity is dangerous and potentially harmful due to infection and diseases such as hepatitis, and also bowel bacteria are not safe to ingest. This is often a hardcore activity and is not for all. Brown showers are the act of defecating on a person for sexual pleasure or humiliation. Please read our safety section.
CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)/Male GenitortureThis is the act of tying or torturing the cock and/or balls of a male submissive. Although great care should be taken, it can be very erotic and sexual. Techniques of torture and bondage play can be read in another section on this website. It is advisable to read our safety page before undertaking any activity of this nature.
CagesThis is a large item of bondage equipment used for all types if bondage activities. They come in many different shapes and sizes and can be used in conjunction to other types of bondage play, such as rope bondage, chain bondage and sensory deprivation items such as gags and blindfolds. It can provide a place of confinement to a submissive or to display them for play sessions for other Dominants to use them under consensual circumstances. There are 3 main types of cages puppy cage, upright, and gibbet and all designed to confine a submissive in play sessions.
ChainsChaining is a form of bondage and is very symbolic in the BDSM community. Chains are very adaptable with many lengths and can be used for leg, arm and many body restraining techniques. Please read our safety section on bondage.
Chastity DevicesA chastity device is something worn by either sex, it can be lockable and is used for sexual deprivation or abstinence. There are many types of chastity devices and these are explained in our techniques types section.
CaningA cane can be used as part of sensation play or punishment within the lifestyle. It must be used in the correct manner and this is explained in our techniques section.
ChauffeuringThis is the art of a submissive to carry or chauffeur a dominant with the use of there own body or be used as furniture for a dominants pleasure.
CommandoThis means to go without underwear. Itts to show a dominant that your bottom is easily assessable to them and can for some submissives be humiliating, especially female submissives who are made to wear short skirts.
ChoresMany chores can take place in the lifestyle and it is usually put in place by a Master/Mistress and a slave to do domestic chores like washing, ironing, making beds etc. to serve the home and keep it clean. Some bake and cook and enjoy serving a Dominant in this way, individual desires and needs vary and the submissive will only want to please whilst doing these things, and often help others to gain respect of them and their place in the lifestyle.
Chosen clothingThis is usually done between a Master/Mistress and a slave, the slave wishes to please the Dominant in any clothing that they wear. This usually only happens in a TPE relationship.
Chosen foodThis is usually done between a Master/Mistress and a slave, where the Master chooses what food is provided to the slave.
Clothes pegsClothes pegs are used in sensation/torture play sessions, they are a cheap alternative to clamps. Can be used on the skin on different parts of the body, the most common use is on the nipples and genitalia.
Cock worshipCock worship can mean many things, one is to sexually arouse a Dominant until they orgasms or for a Dominant to engage a submissive to worship others under his instructions. Licking, sucking and teasing are some ways to worship and sensational touch can please both the Dominant and submissive.
CollarsA collar symbolises that the wearer is submissive and has been collared to a Dominant showing them they are committed. There are many different types of collars and these are explained in our techniques section.
CorsetsCorsets are an item of clothing which is very symbolic in the BDSM community. Within the community they are worn as outerwear as opposed to underwear and can come in different types and variations. These are explained in our techniques section.
CuffsThese are used as restraints in bondage sessions, you can find wrist ones and hand ones and are worn by the submissive and symbolises there status within a D/s relationship. There are many types of cuffs and this is explained in our techniques section.
Cutting/Knife playThis is a scene that is played using knives or sharp implements. Sensation play is scoring but some like to be cut without serious injury. A reminder that this is a scene or session played between consenting adults and proper training should be taken up before any play is to take place. See SSC.


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